May 08, 2006

Sleight of hand

The best thing that I like about weekends is the small 'walk to remember' that I have in the park nearby. If in Blore you just want to spend your time sitting back relaxed in the bosom of the soil watching the sun and the stars then you need to do a reality check. The malls are so disgustingly overcrowded that the air becomes fraught the whiff of your neighbor's sweat. Add to that the traffic is so maddening for the poor roads to withstand that you sometimes wish you had wings! Nevertheless there is a small park near my abode which brings me closer to nature and give me time to relax and indulge in some pschyobabble. During one such walks last weekend I was ruminating over the key to happiness in a person's life. After a few sessions of deliberations in my mind I came to the conclusion that the secret lies in your hand - literally! Many a times in life we cling upon people, desires, thoughts, dreams, relationships, friendships for our survival and hang onto them as our liberator and hold them tight with our fists closed. Failure or separation from our so called liberators is very difficult to come to terms with when our fists are closed. I see it as a rope in our hand which we think would end in bliss and if the rope is stretched a bit too far or is pulled away from us and we tightly cling upon it, it would only result in bleeding of our hands. I'm not advocating not having dreams, desires, relationships, friendships for they form an important part of our existance and distinguish us from machines. But hold the rope lightly in your hand. Enjoy the time when you have the rope in your hand as a blessing. Remember nothing lasts forever. Let go of things. The key to happiness lies in the sleight of your hands.

4 comments:

Nishit said...

Wow!!! It's only when one gets simple, he/she realizes such things, which are obvious truths. I have had many such epiphanies when near to nature, especially at Himalayas and on the banks of Ganga. BTW, it's spelled sleight.

Eliza said...

Thanks for the correction :)

Pallavi said...

Really Nice one and it is simply true.
:)
After your song mail, this one I understood well than that song.,..;)

Alistair D'souza said...

i feel its also ok to hold onto certain things a bit more tightly at times...
so that you know when it wants to let go... and then you hold it lightly...

you said it girl... its sleight of hand :-)